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Thursday, September 13, 2007

Small, but Mighty in Soul and Spirit



New words: wait, hard, ice, elbow, highchair, Mailee. She is loving nursery rhymes, especially Baa-baa Black Sheep and Mary Had a Little Lamb. She is also into little vs. big.

I am finally getting some sleep again. It was a very weary two weeks after she was found hanging on the outside of the crib at two a.m. screaming because her leg was twisted through the slats. Down came the crib and she was free at last. She was very happy to get a toddler bed (I just didn't feel good about using the twin yet), but liked to get up every hour and run into my room. Up went the gate, but then I would climb over to go and comfort her and one night ended up sleeping on the floor in her room. I decided to get tough because I couldn't make it through work with no sleep and she is finally sleeping through the night again, although I did let her back in my bed at 4:30 this morning. I do really well with holding the line up until about 4 o'clock, but if she gets up after that I am not in my right mind and just want to do whatever it takes to close my eyes. Now that the sleep issue is underhand we are going to work on prompt obedience. She is so adorable it makes it hard to enforce things sometimes but I keep telling myself it's the foundation of her character that we are laying here.

13 Comments:

  • At 11:43 AM, Blogger RamblingMother said…

    She looks so sweet and so girly and then there is the bandaid to show she is tough as anyone. Glad to know you figured out the sleep thing. I gave up the battle for now. Eventually I plan to win the bed war but I am too tired to fight for now.

    Beverly

     
  • At 4:37 PM, Blogger Joannah said…

    Sounds like she's on the same sleep cycle my dogs are! I just feed them and put them out so that I can get a little more sleep before I have to get up for work. You're right - most people will do whatever it takes at that time of the morning to get some more shut-eye.

    I love that you know that you are developing her character. I wish all parents had that insight. Our jobs would be much easier if they did, wouldn't they?

     
  • At 5:47 PM, Blogger ~ Alison said…

    Sleep is one thing that can't be compromised ('specially when you're single!) I've had to be tough, too. It's hard. 4am really hurts. Glad things improving for you at night, and good luck with the obedience!!

     
  • At 7:57 PM, Blogger Truly Blessed said…

    I look at Katie and lament that she was only a baby for about 3 1/2 weeks, then she became a toddler.

    Abbey is definitely growing up (as per the grand plan of life!) -- she's going to keep you on your toes, Mama!

    Oh, and anyone who asks me for anything at 4:30 in the morning gets it. No questions asked. Just as long as I can go back to sleep, it's all good!

     
  • At 12:57 AM, Blogger Calico Sky said…

    So glad to hear that you are getting more sleep now. That is wonderful news!

     
  • At 11:50 AM, Blogger kerri said…

    Glad to here the sleep issues are coming.
    Love the photo,Abbey looks so grown up!!

     
  • At 6:54 PM, Blogger kitchu said…

    Glad she's getting back to normal in her new toddler bed! She's so darn cute!

     
  • At 10:22 AM, Blogger Tamara said…

    yep I remember the transition to the toddler bed. I have one that likes to climb into Mommy's bed too about 5:30 every morning.

     
  • At 11:46 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I remember being so strict with my daughter... never let her sleep in our bed...

    then my son was born and I knew he will be our last child...

    so I let him sleep in our bed... to be honest... I enjoyed it so much myself... just to feel this little warm body... his breath... when he fell asleep in our bed... I would carry him in his own bed... sometimes he got up in the middle of the night... I would take him then in our bed...

    For our sake and desire to sleep I didn't make a big issue of it... now at 4 he sleeps in his own bed...

    I just so sorry that I missed this time with my daughter...

    There are so many battles who are important to win, this wasn't one of them...

    If you can... just let go... on the other hand... isn't that sweet that she want to be around you all the time...

    and really... time flies by so fast... I doubt she will be sleeping in your bed till she is 18... lol...

    All my Bleesings

    Andrea

     
  • At 11:34 PM, Blogger Rebekah Vincent said…

    Sleep? Oh I had it so easy when Katie was first home she is our first child from China.(first child period) Then we brought Cordie home and sleep was non existant she had slept with her foster mother and she refued to let me sleep unless it was snuggled next to me.Time has passed and now she comes in and checks on me covers me up kisses me and some times goes right back to her own bed. We leave in 18 days to bring our son home. Please pray I don't know if a king size bed will be big enough or if I will have the will power to fight the sleep issues LOL. Please pray as we are lifting you up to God for blessing unimaginable,
    Bekah
    in Madisonville KY

     
  • At 7:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I pretty much agree with you and the other posters with a proviso: If it is a once in a while thing OK just in with Mom. But, if she thinks she can get away with it every night because she knows she can wear you down, then...I think it pays to jump out of bed & stick her back in her own bed. You are so right about saying that you are laying the foundation of her present and future character. It is so incredibly important to lay the right foundation so that when she is older and on her own she will not have a tilted foundation that will flood & cause damage. It is much easier to embrace change when you are younger and a heck of a lot more difficult to change the older you get. I know this one for sure--been there and done that! I know she is adorable and I can just imagine that it hurts your heart to tell her no or make her mind, but....you want her to learn to behave now and understand there are consequences if she does not. When she gets older she won't be surprised when a boss expects her to do something! You--that you get the much needed refreshing sleep you need; Abbey--that she will learn quickly that big girls sleep by themselves in their big bed! Maybe if you had one special night where you would allow her to sleep with you would that help?? Lots of Love and Prayers for both of you.

     
  • At 7:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You and the posters pretty much have the right idea when they said give whatever they want to someone at 4am! However, if it is only sometimes that is OK but I would make myself get up at 4am & put them back to bed if they thought they could do that every night! You are so right about building character--you are giving her the foundation for how she will be and act for the rest of her life. If she does not get the right foundation laid now then she will have to change it later in life when it begins to cause her problems. Been there and done that! It is a lot easier to change when you are younger (just like it is easier to learn to ski when you are a kid)! I'll be praying for both of you--you that you can be loving AND firm when needed and that Abbey will change her ways & learn to love to be a big girl in her big bed!

     
  • At 4:40 PM, Blogger Joannah said…

    I gave you a little award. Check out my blog to see what I mean.

    :-)

     

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